025: The Shocking Effects of Betrayal and How to Overcome Them to Have an Abundant Life – Dr. Debi Silber

Dr. Debi Silber, President/CEO of Debi Silber Companies, LLC. and founder of www.PBTInstitute.com is a recognized health, mindset, empowerment and personal development expert. She’s a speaker, coach and author of the Amazon #1 Bestselling book: The Unshakable Woman: 4 Steps to Rebuilding Your Body, Mind and Life After a Life Crisis, The Unshakable Woman-The Workbook (the companion guide to the book) as well as 2 books recommended by Brian Tracy, Marshall Goldsmith, Jack Canfield and many more. Debi’s contributed to FOX, CBS, The Dr. Oz show, TEDx, The Huffington Post, Shape, Self, Health, Working Mother, Forbes, Psychology Today, WebMD, Ladies Home Journal, MSN, Woman’s World and Glamour to name a few.

After researching and conducting a PhD study on how women experience betrayal from a family member or partner, Debi has discovered a predictable and proven process taking women from betrayal to breakthrough. That process, coupled with 27 years of health, mindset and personal development training and coaching, enabled her to create a multi-pronged approach to help women heal (physically, mentally, emotionally, psychologically and spiritually) from the trauma of betrayal..

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3 Key Points:

  1. A life crisis can be one of the best ways to empower you… if you know how…
  2. There is a scientific grieving process that must occur after any type of betrayal if you don’t want it to negatively impact your life going forward
  3. You must be able to tap into your intuition if you want to avoid future betrayal incidences!

Show Notes

**Click the time stamp to jump directly to that point in the episode.

  • [01:48] – Dr. Debi explains how she discovered the incredible effects of betrayal and why we’ve missed these shocking implications for so long!  (And why most people don’t really understand what “betrayal” really is!)
  • [04:53] – Why betrayal “symptoms” often come out when a person gets into a “deep” relationship… and why it will often keep killing each and every relationship a person gets into!
  • [06:12] – Debi explains the horrific betrayal experience she had and how she was able to move forward and use it as a life-transforming experience… and what this means for you!
  • [07:51] – The three shocking discoveries Debi made that will either cause a person to be stuck for a lifetime… or heal in a matter of weeks! (Healing from betrayal is VERY different than healing from grief or a loss!)
  • [09:47] – How the stages for healing from betrayal is different from loss and what you need to know if you’re going to heal and transform!
  • [11:55] – You can take a “betrayal” quiz on Debi’s website to see if you are being affected from a betrayal in your life! [Take the quiz here]
  • [15:44] – The five stages to overcome betrayal so it doesn’t negatively impact you or your life in the future! (If you skip this… the hidden betrayal symptoms can destroy your relationships and businesses!)
  • [21:27] – A real-life example of being stuck in stage 3 UNCONSCIOUSLY and how it affects your life!  (Warning… this is extremely shocking and may upset you!)
  • [25:40] – Stage 4: how to adjust to the “new normal” and why most people can’t get to this step!
  • [30:13] – Debi treats Stu … live on the show! (And breaks a limiting belief that has affected Stu for 30 years!)
  • [36:02] – Why your “world view” could be preventing you from any progress in your life… and the shocking implication of “re-training” your “world view”!
  • [36:58] – Why betrays causes “relationship hopping” and how to determine if you’re doing this!
  • [37:44] – Betrayal… even though it’s painful… actually speeds up the transformation process to be your “best self”!
  • [38:59] – What Debi would do different if she had to do things over again
  • [39:24] – The best advice Debi has ever received
  • [39:39] – The personal habit that contributes most to Debi’s success
  • [41:09] – The absolute must-read book
  • [41:27] – Debi’s parting piece of advice!  

Awesome Resources!

1) The Goal Setting Guide: Learn how to set goals and actually accomplish them within 90 days!

2) The Novo Method Success Pack: Create rapid success by learning how to overcome your mental blocks… then build your best body using my proven nutrition, cardio, and weight training program.